KEY SCRIPTURE: 2Ti 4:2 KJV Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine.
The scripture says this act of exhortation must be done with longsuffering. Why should exhortation be done with long-suffering? Exhortation, which also means encouragement, has to do normally with those who express a form of weakness one way or the other.
A person addicted to any substance would definitely need lots of encouragement. There are those who have suffered a loss of something dear. They might have lost a very dear relation. Those needing encouragement in a number of cases feel like giving up their walk in Christ, or even feel depressed about life. Such people do not only need to be spoken to once, but over and over again. It is in this light that exhortation must be done with longsuffering.
To have longsuffering is to show great love that would not give up on the ɓrethren’s shortcomings or their inability to change or respond positively to the word of exhortation being given to them. One act that really helps you to bear long with the negativity or inconsistencies of such brethren is the prayer of intercession. Intercession not only works to change the condition of the failing brother but also helps you to keep working hard to get the brother out of the poor situation.
You may even spend some days fasting and praying for that brother or sister who needs exhortation or encouragement.
One other virtue you have to cultivate is an inner assurance that no matter what happens, things will turn out positively with that brother or sister. This means having faith in the word of God that the devil cannot succeed in derailing the life of that brother. Keep assuring yourself that with the help of the Holy Spirit, you will see this brother free. In the light of all that has been said above, keep exhorting the brother or brethren with the word of God.
Do not lose your patience to express any form of frustration.
Do not complain about their inconsistencies, but keep sharing the word of God with them.
As you patiently remain faithful to share the truths of God’s word with them, you would eventually see a great transformation in their lives.
THOUGHT: WHENEVER YOU ARE DEALING WITH A FAILING BROTHER, CONSIDER GOD’S HEART TOWARDS THEM
FURTHER STUDIES
1Th 5:14 KJV” Now we exhort you, brethren, warn them that are unruly, comfort the feebleminded, support the weak, be patient toward all men.”
1Co 13:4 ISV” Love is always patient; love is always kind; love is never envious or arrogant with pride. Nor is she conceited.”