KEY SCRIPTURE :1 John 4:7 KJV” Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God”.
Every born-again Christian is born out of love. God our father is love. He or she has been imparted with the very love nature of the Father. Romans 5:5 KJV “And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us”.
He is not expected to quarrel with his or her close relatives because he is no more controlled by his senses. The senses or the physical instincts does not rule the born again child of God. The man who is ruled by his natural instincts or the flesh is a slave of Satan. Death has its toll over such a person. Romans 8:6. Just consider the state of the man who hates his neighbor. 1John 3:14 KJV” We know that we have passed from death unto life, because we love the brethren. He that loveth not his brother abideth in death. Hatred and division of any kind invites Satan to freely takeover the home, friendship, or whatever relationship that is concerned, to destroy the persons involved. An example of the results of hatred is divorce. If you have been born again, then hatred, divisions, fighting, are all alien to you.
What you must do, is to build that love consciousness into yourself. Declare consistently that you are born of love and cannot hate anyone, no matter what they do. Say always to yourself that, it is Christ who is personally alive in you, so you are an extension of his nature manifesting His love to a hurting world. Say, I do not curse, but I bless. Build this love image into your being and demons would never be able to stand up to you.
I am a love child. I love all persons. There is none that I cannot love, because I am not led by my carnal instincts but by the word of God. There is peace and harmony in every place, I go.
Rom 13:10 KJV “Love worketh no ill to his neighbour: therefore, love is the fulfilling of the law”.
1 John 4:17 KJV “Herein is our love made perfect, that we may have boldness in the day of judgment: because as he is, so are we in this world”.